Wish I’d Had This Advantage

A close friend thought he was having a heart attack last week. All the tests and doctors opinions boiled down to over exertion. He found that his heart was just fine.  His chest pains were like the ones we got in high school from working out so hard in sports, and breathing like a steam engine.

The pain you get with a heart attack is unique, to say the least. For me, it was large and sudden, and I was getting ready to celebrate Mother’s Day (May 9, 2010) with Diane and the kids—I hadn’t spent two hours swimming laps.  And, it wouldn’t die down.

Forty-five minutes after calling 911, I was in recovery with two stents and no damage to my heart. PTL, if I may.  Since then, I have had stress tests and EKG to make sure things are fine. Things are fine. And, with the stents, I gained back my ability to get a full lung of air, to top it off—I hadn’t been able to do that for about three years! Sometimes now, I take a deep breath like and savor it like I’m eating a Butterfinger candy bar—it’s that pleasant and rewarding.

So, what is this wish, this advantage? Anyone can now get the tests that can help determine your need before you have the attack, or worse—a stroke!    Life Line Screening!

I have friends who have had stents put in because a problem was discovered, but they didn’t have to risk death to find out. LLS advertises on television now, and the cost of the battery is $150. No brainer if you are over 50. Well, at least you can think about it.




Two Brothers and a Big Wheel

The faded red and yellow plastic Big Wheel, scooted down the sidewalk, skidded to a stop, picked it up, turned it around, and raced back to our drive where the older brother spun out, leaving a thin trails of black polypropylene from each rear tire. He circled his little brother on my daughter’s plastic toy.
“It’s my turn, Michael. You’ve had it forever,” the little brother shouted. The older boy, bolted down the sidewalk again, going farther on the low-riding three-wheel wonder. The third drive down, he pulled out of sight behind the neighbor’s car.
Matthew turned to his father, who stood speaking with me. “Daaad?”
His father ignored his plea, and buzzed on about whatever we discussed.
“One minute, Matthew. Don’t interrupt.”
“Dad! He won’t give me a turn.”
His father turned to his older boy. “Michael. Give Matthew a turn. Michael? Michael!” Eventually Michael popped out from behind the neighbor’s car and zoomed back into our drive, spinning out again, and then slowly rolled out of the toy, savoring his ownership.
“You’re too big for that, anyway,” his father said. “Why in the world…?” And he turned back to our conversation.
The little brother saddled up—a perfect fit. With a big smile, he spun the front wheel till he got traction. He skidded onto the sidewalk. Michael chased along behind him. He put his hands on the little boy’s shoulders, and pushed him . “Ow! Michael, leave me alone,” Matthew shouted. He squirmed, and ducked forward avoiding his grip.big-wheel
Michael ran ahead of him. He jumped onto the sidewalk in front of him. “Dead end, sir! You’ll have to go around.”
“Michael! Let me go. You had your turn!”
“Go around.”
I watched, looking past their father. Matthew tried to peddle over the lawn, but St. Augustine is not passable. As the father turned to see what I was looking at, Michael quickly stepped aside, and the Big Wheel moved along the edge of the sidewalk, half on the grass.
There wasn’t a moment that the younger boy was free to enjoy his turn—his older brother had taken the pleasure and the joy from him. Why? What was the payoff in fouling someone else’s pleasure? Was it jealously, or hope that his target would give up his turn sooner than later? Was it the idea that ‘if I can’t have it, no one can?’ Or, was it a base pleasure that accompanies destruction of others and their property—vandalism. It frustrated me, it was unfair—it certainly wasn’t my place to step in. True story.
Since Donald Trump’s election, we have had riots that some called demonstrations. There was an expensive recounting of the votes into which ring Hillary Clinton threw her crown. And the media’s criticism of Mister Trump has been relentless. And now, President Obama is planting landmines of fiat laws, regulations, commuted sentences, and inflammatory statements about Donald J. Trump—anything he can do to stall the new administration.
Trump and his supporters have not been free to enjoy their victory—the opposition has sucked the pleasure and joy from the Americans who elected him. Why? What’s the payoff in fouling up someone’s pleasure in their success? Is it jealously? Or is it the hope that their target will give up his turn? Or, is it the idea that ‘if I can’t have it, no one can have it?’ Maybe it’s the banal pleasure that accompanies destruction of others and their property—vandalism, nihilism—gives a crude, undeserved power. It’s unfair—but boys will be boys, I guess. I think I could use one of those crying rooms at one of those expensive schools.

Couldn’t Have Said it Better!

paulette-turner-and-her-broodPaulette Turner posted this the other day:

I grew up in Garden Grove, California, during a time when everyone treated each other like family. We went outside to play, we got dirty….we bought chips & candy from the store. We played “Red Light, Green Light”, Simon Says, “Hide and Seek”, Dodge Ball, Kick the Can, 7-up Baseball, Softball, and Football and marbles. Played in water from the fire hydrant. We ate beans and hot dogs, mac and cheese & peanut butter sandwiches at school. We walked everywhere .

We weren’t AFRAID OF ANYTHING. We made our own go carts, biked everywhere no helmets. If you fell down you would just get back up. We challenged each other everywhere…King of the Hill. If someone had a fight, that’s what it was…a fight. Kids weren’t afraid of fake guns when I grew up. We left our houses as soon as we could in the morning and right after school till our neighbors would yell out for their children as a reminder to get in the house for the night. If one kid was called for supper then we all knew to go home. We watched our mouths around our elders because we knew if we DISRESPECTED any adult, there would be a price to pay. We had manners and respect, otherwise someone else’s parents put you in your place. Everyone’s mother was mom and father was dad, we were a community, I am thankful for so many great memories of growing up.

Hold your finger down to copy and paste. Please re-post with your block if you’re proud that you came from a close knit community and will never forget where you came from!!♡ 12172 Hackamore Rd., best block and neighbors!. We were so fortunate – great memories.

Thank you, Paulette. I, Doug Wolven, grew up at 12621 Fletcher Drive in Garden Grove and graduated from Garden Grove High School, class of ’64 (the best—most spirit)—as did Jack Skogman and Kim Frizzel who lived on Fletcher (there were eleven of us kids).  Jack falls into what he calls “the Fletcher Moon” and I’m right there with him—remembering the golden fifties.

Paulette didn’t miss a thing, except maybe our b-b gun  club (Robert Doss started it), and Doctor Doss chopping off the heads of chickens in their back yard (talk about a chicken with it’s head cut off, what a show, but ya gotta eat). And, Jackie Scholl would remind you of the family car and Foster’s Freeze. And…

Fare Share? Taxes?

We have four seasons In California: drought, wildfires, earthquakes, and elections. The election season, more than ever, has become tax season. And, California is a leader in taxing those wealthy people who must be vilified—they have become that Great Gray They, this nameless, faceless evil cadre. Why would anyone want to be a rich person here in the Golden State?
Governor Brown (Governor Moonbeam) actually ran on a “higher taxes” platform, and squeezing every drop from  those at the top who somehow hold all the money, and deny kindergartners food and education. And, no doubt, the drive-by voter feels that those taxes will never fall to them (except as a benefit), or effect them in any bad way—the top one percent is finally, finally going to be made to “pay their fare share.”
There are two reasons or uses for taxes: we need money to provide defense and certain necessary services, and secondly we tax products and institutions we want to destroy or drive out of the state.
Cigarette tax is $4 a pack, and that tax has been very effective in driving down smoking. Baby Boomers recall that back in the fifties—when cigarettes were 25¢ a pack, in vending machines, in restaurants—our parents and grandparents smoked, the neighbors smoked, the barber, people in diners, cars, hotel rooms, on TV… not anymore.
People with money, entrepreneurs, retirees such as I, friends of mine, are leaving the state. If you are wealthy enough to live anywhere, and you are vilified and targeted daily by our state officials (how they love that title: State Officials), why would you stay?

Rubbing Donald’s Nose in It

Sunday, October 8, 2016

Wow, (low, disappointed sigh)—an eleven-year old hideous blue torpedo blew up in our faces. That video of Donald Trump’s candid remarks from Hell is indefensible, and a lot of his important supporters have jumped ship.

I’m glad I wasn’t taped saying any of the things I’m ashamed of (and there’s plenty). But, I would never have been arrested, tried, convicted and incarcerated for anything I’ve done. Trump’s statement won’t bring a conviction either, though Hillary hopes it will spell an end to his run.

Eleven years might almost be called recent—it’s being reported as though it was done two days ago when the New York Post released it. I choose to believe that Donald Trump has changed in eleven years, and that this tape as an embarrassment to him, just as it would be to you or me, it’s his past, not his present. Being embarrassed by your past is a good thing if it truly is your past—it keeps you humble; or it humbles you.

I’m gambling on Donald (sure it’s a gamble) that his current business practices support what he currently says, that women enjoy working for him, and that as President he will do goode for all Americans. And it’s better to be ashamed today than to be impeached in February.

On the other hand. Hillary, having the press and a crew of 120 “hired guns”  ferreting out all the dirt she can find on one person for the purpose of destroying him, shows her to be a very talented leader, a specialist, a seasoned politician.

Hillary is not a gamble. She is everything we know her to be. She has proved she is secretive, greedy and self-aggrandizing—currently! When Trump is plied with the question, “Will you support the Presidency if you do not win?” he should answer: “Whether or not I win, I will see that Hillary Clinton is prosecuted for her crimes.”

Hillary’s power to bring down thunder, and to enjoy the help of the press, FBI Director Comey’s protection, and her special 120 person research team, is sickening and terrifying—such power! I’m reminded that one day we will stand before God (to see a video of our lives?) and that we will answer for every word we’ve spoken, and all our actions. As Hillary and Company dig and dig into Trump’s past, she grasps this kind of control, the kind of knowing that belongs only to God. The image of the climax of “Raiders of the Lost Ark,” when the Ark of the Covenant is opened comes to mind, when the German gets all the power he was looking for—pay day!

Hillary has perfected the new politics in her relentless pursuit of power and wealth. In the past, things said and done by candidates were off limits—Presidents were elected on policy and their ability to do the job. Hillary is doing everything she can to distract the conversation from policy and her record, and to keep Trump from talking about his plans or owning his record (his successes).

Vote for Donald because he can do the job of restoring sanity to the United States of America. Notice how he listens to us—listening and hearing a person, looking them in the eyes when they speak, is the highest form of love we can share on any typical day.

Donald Trump has spent time with the people while Hillary has sequestered herself, preparing every word she will say, learning how to get Donald to react. Donald is a builder, a doer; and Hillary is a talker, a politician.

One last image comes to mind from “Runaway Bride.” Richard Geer plays Ike, a reporter, who has gotten to know Maggie (Julia Roberts), the Runaway Bride, and become sympathetic to her plight.  At her rehearsal dinner, when her family and friends deliver toasts, each a running gag kept afloat for years at her expense, he is forced to deliver a toast.

Ike: You want me to make a toast?  Okay…
I’ll give you a toast.  To Maggie’s
family and friends.  May you find
yourselves the bull’s eye of an easy
target.  May you be publicly flogged
for all of your bad choices and may
your noses be rubbed in all of your





Loose Cannon

Loose cannon as a common metaphor refers to a specific hazard aboard ship. Ships of the line, warships of the British, French and American navies bore iron or bronze cannons of five or six hundred pounds that fired balls as large as thirty-two pounds. A thirty-two pounder was a very large cannon. The carriages for these cannons were harnessed with block and tackle (say “take-le”) fore and aft. The two-inch lines were run through pulley systems necessary to run the guns out, and acted as recoil limiters when fired. Block and Tackle might also be used to help “point” the cannon. Some cannons were bolted to the deck, and four men commonly manned each cannon.

A loose cannon doesn’t fire accidentally, as Clinton hoped to infer regarding Donald Trump. A cannon breaking free careens across the heaving gun deck splintering ladders, buckets, crates—six hundred pounds of hot metal in a massive wooden carriage, rolling on heavy wooden wheels destroyed everything in its way, and crushed any man caught in its path—literally clearing the deck [Recall that scene in “Pirates of the Caribbean—World’s End” when the rat Commodore descends from the poop deck as his ship is shredded around him].

A loose cannon is a bull in a China shop times ten. A loose cannon brings the work of the ship to a halt as the careening metal mass destroys the crew and the very ship that carries it until it can be sent overboard or pinned to a rail. As long as the  cannon is loose, the ship is out of service.

Secretary Clinton called Trump a loose cannon and then arrogantly, condescendingly added, “…and loose cannons tend to misfire.” Most likely, mongering fear, she meant that Donald Trump would impetuously push the big red nuclear button.

But Misfire means to fail to fire, as when one relies upon their weapon when the trigger is pulled, or when one expects the cannon to fire when the fuse is lit. So, let’s separate the concept of misfire from loose cannon—it certainly doesn’t mean what she intended. But the idea of miss fire fits Secretary Clinton and President Obama.

The death of Ambassador Chris Stevens, Sean Smith, Tyrone S. Woods, and Glen Doherty in what is known as the Battle of Benghazi stands as the perfect example of a misfire. Secretary Clinton and President Obama either slept peacefully, or played golf—but no one responded to the cry for help from Ambassador Stevens, and the others who died or were wounded on 9/11/2012.

Hillary Clinton misfired, misfires, and will misfire again, as she blunders along in disregard for the Constitution and our balance of power as has been Loose Cannon Obama’s habit, and she will be Obama’s third term if elected. Further, President Obama golfed as 100,000 people scrambled for places to stay after the Louisiana Flood. Then he scolded Congress three days ago for not getting something done in the loss of 65,000 homes in that flood. He is now guilty of playing more than 400 rounds of golf in his nearly eight years. There are 408 weeks in eight years; and he will have averaged more than one game a week by the time we reach January.

Clinton’s careless use of the metaphor “Loose Cannon” reflects her casual, arrogant habit of assuming that whatever she says will be eagerly absorbed by most everyone. And it is apparent she and her speechwriter have little concern for the accurate use of English.

If Hillary takes office and is ever found in a position requiring her to push the big red button in our defense, Heaven help us all, it would most likely misfire since she will no doubt have given Russia the rest of our uranium.

Conscience: Accusing or Excusing

Clark deNoon writes here as a guest author—
I’ve noticed that people implicitly ascribe a high degree of reliability to conscience, as if were either the underlying foundation for both their words and actions. Some find refuge in conscience as if it were a restoration of inClark deNoonnocence and purity. Others, evidently think that speaking or acting according to conscience is an expression of righteousness or, even, godliness. I find such behavior neither comforting, nor encouraging. Rather than admirable, reliance on conscience is, at best—naïve, worse—negligent, and worst—stubbornly juvenile.
My experience has been that reliance on conscience is flexibly either a substitute for reason, or the name given for a position that doesn’t stand up to reason. I find conscience to be both a dim light and primarily effective only in retrospect.
Perhaps, conscience was beneficial in the halcyon days of early childhood, when it was as tender and responsive as our flesh and bones had been. Placed in us by our Creator to accuse or excuse our behavior, its usefulness is limited and erratically obeyed, but as the years stumble past, and by the time we reach voting age, it has become numbed by bad decisions, conflicting knowledge, twists of logic, adoption of contrary values, the influence of education, and the many voices we have chosen to listen to and believe.
Under the sway of such influences, I find practicing reason and collaboration to be safer, more sensible, and more reliable. Reality has a way of defeating idealism, facts have a way of exposing fantasy, truth has a way of undermining wishful thinking, time has a way of ending naiveté, and reason has a way of correcting emotional decisions and transforming our thought lives.
Paul of Tarsus, a writer of many books in the Bible, describes in Romans 1:18 to the end of the chapter, what can happens to conscience when truth is denied and reason is abandoned. Chapter two makes clear how powerless conscience is to change the outcome of someone who relies solely on it in the face of judgment.
Isaiah the prophet quotes God saying, “Come let us reason together” (Isaiah 1:18), as He goes on to urge the people of Israel to use sound reason, or suffer the long-term consequences of bad decisions.

Clark deNoon